On a Personal Note… Love is Hard

 

Very rarely do I write this openly… but it’s my blog. So. I’ll do what I want to. I firmly believe that every relationship we’re in, prepares us for the next. As someone who got married young… I never really experienced this. It wasn’t until now, in my 30′s, that I’ve began to understand what this means. And… I’m grateful for it. I’m grateful to the Universe for bringing amazing people into my life. Each of these people have taught me something valuable about being in a relationship. I’ve learned about  friendship, fighting fair, caring, supporting one another, being a cheerleader, accepting help, pain, loss, and love. I’ve been in love. And I’ve been loved. But I don’t know that it’s ever been at the same time in a healthy way… until now. I’ve met someone who I can’t imagine a day without. We’ve discussed our past relationships and it’s clear that we’ve reached an amazing place in our lives.  And still… Love is hard.

 

So… I trust. I believe. I give. I let go of what is required. And I seal it with a kiss to the Universe.

 

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Hunger in America

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I struggle with this topic. This is America. One of the world’s richest nations. How can we possibly be dealing with hunger in America? And yet… we are. Did you know that 1 out of 5 kids in America are facing hunger every day? That’s nationwide. Let’s break it down even further. I live in the state of Arizona. In Arizona, 30% of kids struggle with hunger. THIRTY PERCENT! Out of school-aged kids in Arizona, 493,000 are receiving free or reduced-price lunches and only 46% of those are getting school breakfast. Translation? Most of these students will only eat ONE meal a day. At school. What about in the summer? It’s time to stop hunger in America. I know I’m only one person… but we can all do something to help make a difference.

Kids who eat breakfast have a higher school attendance and are more likely to graduate high school. Twenty percent more likely, as a matter of fact! Those same kids are proven to go on to earn $10,000 more annually on average than their hungry counterparts. Additionally- these kids are less likely to experience hunger as adults. I suppose that we could assume that their children would also be less likely to experience hunger- stopping the cycle.

If you read along regularly… you know that I’m on the Denny’s Brand Ambassador Team. But I’m not invoicing Denny’s for this post. I’m writing it because it’s an important topic… not because it’s on my editorial calendar or because I’m being paid to do so. Denny’s is one of many brands on a mission to end childhood hunger in America. They need our help.

Every dollar we donate to No Kid Hungry is tax deductible. That dollar can feed a child up to 10 healthy meals. All proceeds go to Share Our Strength’s No Kid Hungry, a campaign that ensures every child in America has access to free and nutritious food. Donate $3 and receive up to $9 of value (in coupons) on all your Denny’s diner favorites. Visit nokidhungry.org/dennys for more information. And tweet with us at #DennysNKH and #NoKidHungry.

Join me in doing this one small thing to make a difference.

xo

Kelly

Disclosure: I’m a paid ambassador of Denny’s, however I was not compensated for this particular post. Not that it matters… I only post about the things I authentically love. Thanks for reading! xo -Kelly

That One Time That I Passed on the Fries…

Fries. I. Love. Fries. I love them plain. I love them with ketchup. I love them with beer. I love them with soda. I love them with burgers. I love them alone. I. Love. Fries.

In case you were wondering…. Denny’s has amazing fries. I took the kids to a Denny’s event last week and not only did they order fries… but we ordered jalapeno buttons! Deep fried slices of jalapenos! Oh. Yum. But… I digress. This is about that one time I didn’t order fries. It’s true! I ordered fruit! How novel!

This summer Denny’s launched a few new menu items! My favorite? The chicken salad sandwich! So much so… that I’ve tried to recreate it (scroll down for the recipe). I think I got pretty close to the Denny’s version… but I’m so lazy… I’d rather just head to my local Denny’s and order it! The Denny’s version is made from scratch with roasted, seasoned chicken and served on toasted 7-grain bread. It’s amazing.

Below… you’ll find my own recipe. Let me know if you try it out!

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Ingredients

  • 1 pound boiled chicken cut up into little cubes
  • 1 cup chopped celery
  • 1 cup red grapes cut in half
  • ½ cup of chopped almonds (or walnuts if you prefer)
  • 1 cup mayonnaise
  • ½ teaspoon salt
  • ½ teaspoon ground black pepper

Instructions

Add the chopped chicken to a large bowl along with the celery, grapes, chopped almonds (or walnuts), mayonnaise, salt and pepper. Stir them all together until all the ingredients are evenly combined. Chill. Then eat! Yum!

 

Disclosure: I’m a paid ambassador of Denny’s. This really excites me, because Denny’s was one of my first real jobs as a teenager! You can check out my first post in this series all about my real, authentic, love of Denny’s here. I’d never share about something I didn’t truly feel fondly about! xo -Kelly

And This is Why I Love Men With Accents…

Oh to be 17 again…

If I could go back in time… I’d go back to when I was 17 years old. When I think back on my life… that was the time I felt the most free. The world was my oyster!  Much like now, I accepted adventure with open arms and I was fearless!  At 17, these adventures needed funding. I had been working since I was 15, but I needed to step it up. I needed pocket cash. Enter Denny’s.

The Denny’s was a symbol of my high school years. It was the place to hang out after football games and dances. It was where I first heard of a “dine and dash”. (Although I never had the guts to ever do that!) It was where I drank endless pots of coffee late into the night- giggling over Moons Over My Hammy and chowing on hash browns. I’d work there. It would be epic.

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Summertime. I took on the coffee counter in the smoking section. I hated working the smoking section, but at least I could breathe a little easier at the coffee counter. I did well there. Friendly and quick to smile, I started acquiring regular customers. Mostly, older men. Truckers that were reminded of their granddaughter back home. And there were guys from the motorcycle repair school. Handsome guys. And there was one in particular. Let’s call him, Ethan.

Ethan sat down at my coffee counter one morning and I thought I was looking Val Kilmer square in the face. You know, 1986 Val Kilmer. Before he aged and all. Iceman, himself, was sitting at my coffee counter. Be cool, Kelly. Be cool. It was like magic. Our own little Denny’s coffee counter magic. Conversation was easy and smiles were plentiful. And oh… that accent! Australia. He could put another shrimp on my barbie any day!

Ethan came in everyday and asked me out everyday. But he was 20 and my parents knew better. Despite constantly turning him down… Ethan still came to see me at work, bringing me flowers and leaving me sweet notes. I think he enjoyed the chase. Don’t all boys? And then… one day… he told me he was leaving. He was done with school and was moving back home. Apparently, our motorcycle school is very prestigious. And. That was it.

I’ve never really forgotten about Ethan. It was an exciting time in my life. And every time we eat at Denny’s… I look at the coffee counter and I reminisce. Why did I tell you all of this? Because I’ve been chosen to be a Denny’s Blog Ambassador! Denny’s holds such a special place in my heart, despite being left pocket change as a tip after all the football games.

If you haven’t heard… Denny’s is revamping their menus, even the kids menus. I’m really excited by this, because, as you know, my Allison has Type 1 Diabetes. Eating out isn’t always easy, but a fun and healthier kids menu helps us out tremendously! I can’t wait to share with you what I’ve learned over the next 6 months as a Denny’s Ambassador. We’ve got some amazing content planned… from recipes to fun and games to a possible casual, local meet up at my old stomping grounds!

I would love to hear a story from your first job… Share one with me? Please?

xo

Kelly

100 Good Deeds

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What exactly is a good deed? To me, a good deed is going out of your way to do something kind for someone else. Doing good deeds has always been something I love to do. It makes my heart soar, to know that I might have had a positive impact on someone’s day. What are some examples of good deeds? Putting a small gift on the desk of a co-worker. Passing on a positive compliment to someone’s boss about them. Leaving a little extra tip at a restaurant. Listening to someone who needs a friend. Asking what you could do to help a friend out. Picking up the coffee for the next person in line. Giving a compliment to a complete stranger. And in return? You ask for nothing.

I’m currently participating in a fabulous movement. The 100 Good Deeds Movement. I’m writing this post without monetary compensation. I’m writing it because I believe in the notion of performing good deeds. I believe in paying it forward and being a light to those who need it. Mary Fisher, renowned author and advocate, spend years in Africa, helping vulnerable women create jewelry and earn a living. Her brainchild, The 100 Good Deeds Movement, will give women in Haiti, Uganda, Rwanda, Zambia and Johannesburg, the opportunity to create a sustainable income for themselves.

I’m currently wearing one of the handcrafted 100 Good Deeds bracelets. It wraps around my wrist 3 times and it has a little rubber ring that I move along the beads each time I do a good deed. It’s a beautiful and tangible reminder of the impact I’m making… not only in my community… but around the world.

You can become a part of the 100 Good Deeds movement too! Simply send a tweet sharing a good deed someone else has done for you. Mention @The1GDbracelet, use hashtag #1GD and include the link to my blog post. The easiest way to do this is to click the “Sharing is caring” button at the top of this post. 15 lucky friends will be chosen at random to receive their very own 100 Good Deeds bracelet! The share button might give you an error message… but don’t listen. It’s just being silly.

I hope to see some of your good deeds floating around Twitter! #1GD

xo

Kelly

Smart Products to Send with Your Kids to Camp

Let’s talk about camp. I haven’t yet sent Rachel or Allison to an overnight camp, but I know it’s coming. From scout camp to field trips… they’re bound to be camping at some point in the near future. You may have already experienced sending your child to an overnight camp for the summer and you’re an old pro. I’d love to hear some of your best tips in the comments below. For now… I’m going to share with you a few products that have been recommended to me to send with my kids to camp:

Hope Paige medical ID bracelets:

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·         Hope Paige bracelets are the perfect camp accessory for your kids diagnosed with an allergy, illness or medical condition.

·         All stylish accessories can be customized with an engraving on the back to alert EMT’s of medical conditions and provide necessary information.

·         As a parent you can ease your mind knowing your kids will be safe while having fun at camp!

·         All information can be found online at www.hopepaige.com or at your local Kroger store.

 

4id:

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·         4id PowerBudz light up with movement and help make you more noticeable

·         Send your kids off to camp with the 4id light-up products and feel comfort in knowing they will be noticeable and safe while having fun!

·         All information can be found online at www.4id.com

 

Welch’s Fruit Snacks:

 

·         Perfect for satisfying your sweet tooth, but keeping your kids healthy, Welch’s® Fruit Snacks come in an abundance of colorful and flavorful varieties.

·         80-calorie pouches provide 100% of the recommended daily value of Vitamin C and are gluten-free and preservative free.

·         Visit www.welchsfruitsnacks.com for more information

 

Sparkling ICE:

·         Refreshing, zero-calorie beverage combining naturally flavored mountain spring water, fruit juice, vitamins and antioxidants

·         Available in eleven refreshing flavors and six refreshing Lemonade flavors

·         Sparkling ICE can be found in retailers nationwide.

·         Visit www.sparklingice.com for more details

 

Lance Sandwich Crackers:

Lance® Xtra Fulls® Cracker Sandwiches

·         Baked crackers, made with real peanut butter

·         6 grams of protein, No trans fat or preservatives

·         Available in two varieties: Toasty Peanut Butter and ToastChee Peanut Butter (cheese cracker)

·         Available at Wal-mart, mass merchandisers, and grocery stores nationwide

·         www.lance.com

Disclosure: I was not compensated for this post. I chose to share about it because of it’s timely editorial content! xo